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Web when my husband says that, he’s telling me that he loves putting me down because it makes him feel good. Web how could it be anything but intentional? He knows it's not a joke, it is mean and he still chooses to say these things. Web when people are frustrated, scared, hurt, rejected, or suppressed, they like their partners to know how they feel.